The House that Fire Built – Part 1

by PJ McClure on May 15, 2009

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   2008 had been an awkward year. I started a new position on January 2 and had an up-and-down year, but enjoyed some moderate success. In May, my beautiful, young (39 years old) wife had a freak heart attack that could have sent us reeling but turned out to be little more than an inconvenience. Then in October, after driving 12 hours to make it home from a business trip, I slipped into a Nyquil induced sleep only to have Tammy wake me up at about 1:15 am saying that she thought the house was on fire.

   Groggy and irritated, I made my way to the door between our family room and garage, following some unsually loud popping sounds. When I opened the door all mental cloudiness went away. The garage was full of smoke and immediately to my left the room was glowing orange. Slamming the door I ran back toward our room, told Tammy to call 911 and get the kids, while I ran to put clothes on. Why clothes, you ask? Because in my adrenaline soaked mind, I thought that I could go put it out.

   In two seconds I had pulled jeans and shoes on to combat the threat. When I opened the door this time, flames jumped past me a few feet and I immediately shed any manly thoughts of extinguishing the blaze. Running toward the kid’s rooms, Tammy was grabbing our daughter and I pulled our son out of his bunkbed to get out of the house. Our neighbor, Bob, was already coming to the front door with 911 on the line and helped us get clear.

   For the first few minutes outside, my mind was still holding to the thought that the fire department could contain  the fire to the garage and we’d be back in before too long. Once the firetrucks began to arrive and situation unfolded it became apparent that this would not be easy. The fire had gotten into the attic and spread throughout the entire house before the first drop of water hit it. As we have since learned from the investigation, the fire was likely in the attic when we discovered it. More on that later.

   So there I was, standing in my neighbor’s yard, watching everything we owned burn, pretty dramatically too.

Beginning or End?
Beginning or End?

   Firefighters running in and out, one section falling, then another. Knowing that my family was safe inside our neighbor’s house made the experience less shocking and more contemplative. For month’s afterward people would explain my calm demeanor and matter-of-fact attitude regarding the house by saying that I must still be in shock. Are you kidding? When you stand in a pair of soaking wet shoes at 2:00 in the morning, watching firefighters try in vain to save your stuff, the shock goes away. At least it did for us.

   We have worked hard for a number of years to think and act in a certain way. Our lives were not centered on that house or the things in it. Our family believes in the bigness of life moving forward. That attitude was best captured by our 6 year-old son. While the house blazed he looked at Tammy and said, “Well… daddy still has his job and we can replace our old stuff. Can I go to bed now”? That was it. His biggest concern at that moment was if he had to go to school the next day because all he had was pajamas.
 
   I’m not saying that we didn’t miss some of the things that we lost, but the things of the past were not the focus. Where are we headed now was the focus.
Big picture  speaking, we knew that we had a plan for our family. Fun, excitement, positivity and always making the best of a situation was our plan. Loving each other and supporting one-another. That was our plan. This fire, while a part of our reality, was not enough to wreck our plan and only served to focus our plan even more.

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