Monthly Archives: April 2011

Why do I fall back after making such progress?

#6 of the 13 Questions That Started It All Why do I fall back after making such progress? The sensation of falling is the oldest nightmare known to man. The sensation of returning to square one might be just as old and definitely more frustrating. Fewer things are more disheartening than working your tail off…

Similar people, different results

 #5 of the 13 Questions That Started It All  "Why do similar people get such different results?" This question perplexed me for years. At first, the answer seemed obvious. Because people are different…duh! But as I gained deeper understanding about behavior and mindset, I started to see that the issue is much more complex. First,…

Can personal and financial success exist together?

The idea of balancing your professional and personal life is a fallacy for real fulfillment. In the popularized version of this notion, we are told to take what we have and attempt to spend equal amounts of time, manage our time, and guard certain areas like a pit bull. As with other mass movements, the focus is in the wrong place.

Can I Really Fake It Till I Make It?

 #3 of the 13 Questions That Started It All Can I really “fake it till I make it?” Popular as it may be, the idea of acting as if you are something you are not, is psychotic. At least in terms of becoming successful. I cannot count the number of people, me included, that tried…

What is your example saying?

   

Why Goal Setting Doesn’t Work For Everybody

 #2 of the 13 Questions That Started It All "Why doesn’t goal setting work for everybody?" Bad goals are a plague on society! People are constantly setting goals because that’s what we are told to do. Hi, I’m PJ McClure… and I’m a recovering goal setter. (Hi PJ) We’ve had goal setting pounded into us…

Isn’t Desire Enough to be Successful?

Born of frustration, this question comes from the misconception, “if you want something bad enough you’ll get it.” People burn out from this notion all of the time.